Hard to say no to family

The minute my eldest sister called, I knew what is about. The other day, mom asked me for money and I said no. I knew there is nowhere else she can turn to, but I still said no. lending mom the money is like giving to her, there is no way that I can get it back. I knew because it happened a lot in the past, and you can say I learned my lesson.
Before you judge, I am a mom`s good girl, whenever she needs anything, I would do whatever I can to help her. That`s the exact reason why I am in a deep debt, 80 thousand Yuan — I am helping her paying her debt. I managed to pay back the half so far, and I promised the owner that I will pay back the rest at the end of next year.
To able to do that, I need to keep 3 thousand Yuan savings each month. And to lending out the money to mom won`t help me achieve it. So I decided to say no to mom no matter what. And I did, but I knew she will ask my eldest sister to ask me for money, and I knew my sister has the capability to pay me back on time.
As I thought, she asked, and I said ok, and she surprised that I would say yes so quickly. Well, what do you expect? To my family, say no once is hard enough, say no twice is something I can`t do. Plus, I know my sister would pay me back no matter what. I have faith in her and I know things will turn out right eventually. :D

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Award show

I love award shows, Emmy, Grammy, Golden Globes, Tony, you name it, as long as it is about music, broadway, and movie or tv series, I would definitely dig it out and watch it.

so, why do I love award show this much?

first, let me tell you what people do at award show.

  • they perform. the best of the best singers or dancers or broadway actors will come together and deliver you this astonishing visual and acoustical performance and will let you want to be present so badly.
  • they get award and they give speech. The best part of this speech is they are always thanking people, expressing their gratefulness, telling you how to believe in yourself to achieve greatness and appreciate the people around you.
  • you can see all the big stars at one time.

To me, the award show, it inspires me more than anything else, it makes me want to be great, it urges me to achieve something and learn to appreciate people around. It is not just a show, but a live educating lesson.

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追根究底

突然发现自己酷爱音乐和美剧。爱听爱看,但从来没有像一些执着的人一样去用心研究这些东西,比如某一首歌的出处,作者,获奖情况等等。一直以为那些不重要,但逐渐地发现去了解一个东西,特别是去了解自己喜欢的东西,了解到知根知底是非常重要的,不为别的,当你想跟你的朋友共享你的这份热情时,你至少可以介绍的有模有样,面面俱到啊。任何一个善长于一项技能的人,他变得善长,就是因为他去追根究底,彻头彻尾地去了解自己所热爱的东西。这份执着和热情使他在这方面有了别人不俱备的知识和见解从而使他变得优越。

孔子曰:三人行,必有我师奄。这是非常有道理的。每个人都有自己的喜好和追求,自己所善长且优越于别人的一项技能,无论是这项技能可以帮助你讨到经济上的富裕还是精神上的富裕,他都给你生活带来了物质或精神上的优越。所以,无论是什么,只要是你喜欢的,试着去追根究底,只要你能坚持,总有一天,你会有意想不到的收获。
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看 ‘康熙王朝’ 有感

‘康熙王朝’ -小时候看,看得是情节,现在看,看得是君王处事之道,用人之术。

上周末不知发什么神经,突然想起来,自己很佩服陈道明,于是,为了表达自己的爱慕之心,仰慕之情,决定去找一部他的片子看。

本人很俗,俗不可耐,于是,便找了一部2001年的’康熙王朝’. 切说我土,刚知此片,其实不然。我早在2001年就看过了,只是当时还小,或智商发育较迟缓,没觉得有啥好,于是只在斗不过我那两个以大欺小的姐姐们时,才跟着看一小段,还不断地嚷着 ‘你们就喜欢看这种幼稚的片子’。

现在想起来,是我幼稚了。

反正,庆幸现在在重看,且无比地HIGH啊。下面整理了一些我的小体会,只给自己看的,所以万一被鄙视,则毕定回鄙视

  •         功高盖主,则你死期或离被发配边疆的日子就不远了。
  •         死得冤,怪自己,干嘛那么忠义,那么执着。
  •         有人骂你,算你幸运。开放思想,听着,然后自省:自己是否真的黑白不明,是非不分。
  •         败,败在于先自乱了手脚,乱了思绪。
  •         关起门时,可以吵个天翻地覆,打开门时,可要万众一心。这样的团队,所向无敌。
  •         吃苦的,永远都是那些老实人。
  •         没有所谓生不逢时,干不过人家就是干不过,技不如人,承认就是了。
  •         最了解你的人,不一定要是你的老婆或情人,而是朋友。或者,就应该是朋友。
  •         意见分歧时,放下个人情绪,要以大局为重。
  •         自大源于无知。
  •         承认自己的错,不丢人,把责任推给别人,才丢人。
  •         惊不颜于表,喜不颜于表。这样显得有深度。
  •         厚脸皮,不是一般人能做到的,但一般做到的人,肯定不一般。
  •         没了你,地球照样转。所以不要以为自己不可惑缺。
  •         要懂得割舍。多看长远。
  •         不理解时,站在他的角度去思考。
  •         孝庄的气度,无人能及。
  •         别人因不幸遭遇而难过时,讲给他一个比他的遭遇更不幸的遭遇。
  •         正义,往往在少数人的手中。
  •         有时,要懂得认命。
  •         有时,要懂得知足。
  •         跟聪明人打交道,要直来直去。
  •         只可得罪君子,不可得罪小人。
  •         有时,人心就得用钱收买。
  •         讲实话 — 第一次,叫有胆识,第二次,叫不给面子,第三次,则不知死活。
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我无味的生活

我不内向,但脸上的痘痘使我不得不内向。不好以满脸的痘痘示人,所以每周末都呆在家里,被迫成了个姹女。所谓姹女,吃饭,看电影,睡觉,上网。想起周末又要重复上周末的事,我连起床的力气都没有了。生活那个所然无味,不是用一两句话能表达的。

突然,世界杯来了。不是足球迷,但为了支持世界杯,决定只看决赛。早上2:30爬起来,足足等了115分钟,终于看到了一个凌空射门,暗自对自己说‘足球果然不适合我,以后还是只看’天下足球‘吧’。

温网也来了,是网球迷,是NADAL的粉丝,但看了第一场他跟一个德国老的比赛,打得很艰苦后,就对自己说‘肯定是我给他来了不好的运气了’,然后决定只听结果。最后,NADAL果然夺冠,不枉我一直没敢看的苦心啊。

一切归于平静,平静的一晚上只能听见那该死的蚊子在耳边飞来飞去的声音。一晚没睡好,又早早醒来,躺着想是用头撞墙呢还是用球撞墙呢?想着想着,竟然睡着了。

来到公司,一堆活儿要干。该死的印度佬,固执已见,让我郁闷死了。不过话说回来,某种程度上,是自找的啦。太过于自大,把人家给惹毛了。你怎么对人,人家也会怎么对你。反正,下次多注意啦!

白天工作,晚上娱乐,日子就是这么被我消磨掉的。工作就不谈了,对着电脑,你就敲吧。娱乐嘛,当然是美剧啦。‘HOUSE’,’DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES’,’GREY`S ANATOMY’,’CSI NY’….. 你想得起来的,我基本都看过,或大体都了解。

没有办法,单身且没啥理想,只能通过别人的生活来充实自己的生活。可悲可叹,但又乐在其中,你说我这人矛不矛盾啊?

最近该看的全看完了,实在太无聊,就开始翻旧的老的,80年代的片子看。原先固执地认为,老片没啥意思,情节简单,穿着老土,过于保守。看了‘GROWING PAINS’之后,改变想法了,经典的片子,不管是哪个年代的人看,都会是经典。因为它经典不是在排场上,而是在内容上。

有个有幽默感的人在身边,生活会添加许多乐趣。不幸的是,我没幽默感,身边的朋友也没有一个比较幽默的。所以只能每天一有空就趴在有道页面,拼命搜笑话。我说,你还别不信,网易有道,是天下有才之人的集散地,你不去逛那儿,是你的损失。

写完乱七八糟的废话之后,得到了一丝的满足感。莫名其妙地,我那紧张的神精松懈下来了。有趣。以后有空应该多写写,反正网络上垃圾文章暴多,多加我一份,相信没人会在乎。哈哈

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The Pain

Everybody has a ‘PAIN’ to deal with. Either is physical or mental.

Some just can`t take it, so they jump off the roof. Some become cynical. And some keep waiting. Waiting for the pain to go away.

Sometimes, when I feel I really can`t take it anymore, I cry. I blame the God for being unfair.

House has a pain too. His pain is his leg even he is an excellent doctor, he can`t do anything to make that pain go away. And then one day, a furious patient came into the hospital and shoot him, twice, one on his waist, and one at his neck. He survived from the bullets. And his pain is suddenly gone too. He is no longer a lame. He is a suspicious and logical man. He needs to figure out how a bullet wound can save him from the leg pain? And then he finds that Cuddy tried out the experimental treatment on him. This treatment brings him 50% chance of healing,letting the pain go away forever and 50% chance of no improvement. Everything is a trade-off. Of course, there will be side effects, which is to make him hallucinate, to have memory blankouts. In a word, it does damage to his brain.

For the first time in so many years, House can walk like a normal person, run like a normal person and jump like a normal person. He can tell the treatment is really working. But at the same time, he realized that the side effect is eating his brain too. He can`t remember what he did or where he has been for some hours. He is saying he met the patient`s wife while he got none. All these signs of the side effect makes him wonder if it is worth trading his pain with his intelligence? Whether he should go on the treatment or just stop it? It is really a hard choice because the pain is really excruciating.

Sometimes, even the athiest, who feel so powerless against the pain they face, they turn to God. I am just one of them.

I asked God, ‘God, even House has a choice, why can`t I? You are so unfair to me -_-’

And then I realized that God is omnipotent. Better not piss him off. So instead of complaining, I started to pray. Pray to him that just let this be over and let me be normal, again!

Is it really too much to ask?

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